I made it “official” today. I posted on Facebook (and Instagram) that my kids are going to college - Susquehanna University Class of 2028.

We’ve known this for months. For some reason I just couldn’t bring myself to make a public announcement. Why is that?

For the past year, we (the family) have invested so much time, energy and money in the “process” - school visits, applications, essays, conversations, deadlines, decisions.

And then the decision is made. It’s so final. I’ve wanted to stay wrapped up in the process without hitting that acceptance. With the decision comes transition. 

-> I planned an adventure and felt sad when it ended.

-> I completed the SAVOUR Guide and felt lost when it was finished.

The kids going off to college is of such a greater magnitude than adventures and guides. How am I going to feel?? More importantly, how am I going to deal with these feelings?

Right now, I’m so happy they are starting a new chapter in their lives and excited for what that holds. Though strange things trigger me to tears. I expect that to happen more and more for the foreseeable future. 

The nest is emptying. 

I know the key is to embrace change. Transitioning to an empty nest is the next step on my journey and I need to seek out and embrace new opportunities. Experts say to explore new hobbies, strengthen relationships, travel and explore, prioritize self-care, lean into professional development.

We will see where that leads.

xoxo

Wendy